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Valentine's Day Spending is Climbing, but I Won't Do That: A Sex Therapist's Guide to Talking About It

THE NEURO SAVVY BILLIONAIRES

Dear Neuro-Savvy Billionaires,

Valentine's Day is one of the most expensive holidays in America, with an average of $192.80 spent on cards, flowers, or other gifts per person. The National Retail Federation has forecast that Americans will spend $25.9 billion on Valentine's Day in 2023, up from $175.41 in 2022. According to the same source, 27% of couples will rely on credit cards to cover Valentine's expenses, with 20% considering that V-Day gifts are worth the credit card debt.

Meanwhile, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander Marin have turned their personal struggle to improve their sex life into a profitable business. They have a popular podcast, online courses, and over 300,000 followers on Instagram. In their book "Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life," the couple discusses how many sex problems stem from poor communication. They offer five structured conversations, centered around acknowledgment, connection, desire, pleasure, and exploration, to help couples talk more openly about sex.

Marin believes that the key to discussing sex with a partner is to incorporate it into regular conversations. The couple recommends that people start talking about sex more openly by offering compliments. These compliments do not need to have a goal or accomplish anything, but they can help create a flirtatious atmosphere. Additionally, maintaining tension and anticipation around sex is crucial in a relationship. Couples can exchange flirty text messages or make a playlist of songs that get them in the mood to keep the tension alive.

Conclusion

Overall, communicating openly and honestly about sex can help improve a couple's relationship. Incorporating sex talk into everyday conversations can make it less daunting, and keeping the anticipation and tension alive can help maintain intimacy. It might also just save your wallet.

With Gratitude,

Hendy Saint-Jacques & ChatGPT-3

Creator & Chief Joy Spreader

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